文汇报2024年10月12日发布:美国歌手每年带女儿检查处女膜是否完整，网友：？

The hip hop star said he would then accompany his daughter to the gynecologist, asking her after the exam if she minded her ob/gyn sharing the results.

这位嘻哈明星表示，他会陪同女儿去看妇科医生，并在检查结束后，问女儿是否介意她医生把检查结果告诉他。

Deyjah, the rapper said, has been subject to such check-ups since she turned 16, noting that “as of her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact.”

他说，黛雅从16岁起就开始接受处女膜检查，还指出“到她18岁生日时，她的处女膜仍然完好无损。”

▲Rapper T.I. faces huge backlash after admitting taking his 18yo daughter to obgyn to ‘check her hymen’(via RT)

……9012年了，还有人年年拉着女儿去检查处女膜？他还来自西方国家、是个公众人物？

如此怪异的行径让大家反感不已。许多Twitter网友连声谴责，有的怒斥T.I.无知、处女膜不是只发生了性行为才“不完整”：

asking a doctor to check your daughter to see if she has been having sex is humiliating & sick af.
& you can’t even always tell by a broken hymen. you can break your hymen by hurting yourself on a bike seat.
让医生检查你的女儿是否有过性行为，是一种侮辱她的、病态的行为。
甚至，通过破损的处女膜来辨别（是否有性行为），本身就是行不通的。骑自行车也可能弄伤自己、弄破处女膜。

有的直言T.I.做法“有毒”，得赶紧停止！

So instead of celebrating the fact that his child lived another year, TI spends his time hyper-fixating on whether or not her hymen is intact? This is so overwhelmingly weird and toxic and he needs to be stopped
所以，孩子过生日其他父母都在庆祝ta又长大了一岁，T.I.反而花时间去高度关注女儿的处女膜是否完整？这简直太怪异了，有毒！得停止这样！

有人表示，给黛雅检查的医生应该被吊销执照：

holy f**king shit this is so scary and assault-y and possessive and awful. That doctor should be stripped of his license
这太吓人了，太有攻击性了，占有欲太强了，太可怕了！那个医生应该被吊销执照。

有人抨击，9012年了，这种“处女膜/贞操”之类的观念太过时了！

I’m gonna need everyone, especially men, to let go of this “viriginity/hymen/purity” concept. It’s outdated, let it go. Virginity is made up. It doesn’t exist. Shut the f**k up.
我需要每个人，尤其是男人，放弃这种“贞操/处女膜/纯洁”的观念！这些观念早就过时了，让它入土吧。“贞操”是个伪命题，它不存在。闭嘴吧！

还有人担忧，这会不会给他女儿灌输一种“身体不是自己能掌控的”的错误观念？

This hymen talk is very strange and at the core of it teaches your daughters their bodies aren’t theirs. Don’t do that.
这种关于处女膜的交谈非常奇怪。它的核心是告诉你女儿，身体不是她们自己（能掌控）的。不要那样做。

事实上，正如上面一些网友所科普的，“处女膜”是否完整，和是否进行过性行为并没有直接联系。

“处女膜”——或者称为“阴道瓣”更合适——它本来就不是一层完全密合的膜（不然大姨妈怎么流出来？）。有些女孩甚至天生没有处女膜，这都很正常。

▲部分处女膜的形状。大多数情况下，它不是一张完全密合的膜。(图via @六层楼先生)

而一些剧烈运动，或者不小心摔伤磕伤，也是有可能“弄破”它的。

但令人匪夷所思的是，T.I.居然疑似连剧烈运动都不让黛雅参加，就是为了保持她处女膜的“完整”……

The rapper indicated his daughter’s gynecologist also explained other ways a hymen can become stretched open, such as riding a bike, horseback riding or other physical activities.

这位说唱歌手表示，他女儿的妇科医生还解释过处女膜被拉伸开的其他方式，比如骑自行车、骑马或其他体育活动。

“I say, ‘Look doc — she don’t ride no horses, she don’t ride no bikes, she don’t play no sports, man — just check the hymen, please, and give me back my results expeditiously.” He added: “I will say, as of her 18th birthday, her hymen is still intact.”

“然后我说，‘看，医生——她不骑马，不骑自行车，不做运动，伙计——请检查一下她的处女膜，尽快把检查结果还给我。” 他补充说：“是的，在她18岁生日的时候，她的处女膜仍然完好无损。”

▲Rapper T.I. says he takes his teen to the gynecologist to confirm her hymen is ‘still intact’(via Washington Post)

▲黛雅的Twitter页面

就为了这么个结缔组织，年年把女儿推去妇科医生那检查，还不让女儿做幅度大的运动……

“膜”比人还重要么？

更何况，“检查处女膜”这样的行径毫无道理，又侵犯了女孩的隐私和尊严，已被世卫组织严厉谴责过。

Virginity testing, which often involves a doctor inspecting the hymen for tears or stretching, is widely considered an unnecessarily invasive practice that has no medical benefit. A report from the National Institutes of Health found that these tests can have a deeply negative psychological impact on women and girls.

贞操测试，通常包括医生检查处女膜是否撕裂或拉伸，被广泛认为是一种没有必要的侵入行为，它没有医疗效益。美国国立卫生研究院的一份报告发现，这类测试可能对成年女性和女孩产生严重的负面心理影响。

The World Health Organization has vehemently denounced virginity testing, calling it "a violation of the human rights of girls and women."

世界卫生组织强烈谴责贞操测试，称其“侵犯了女孩和成年女性的人权”。

"Virginity testing has no scientific or clinical basis," the organization said in a statement. "There is no examination that can prove a girl or woman has had sex – and the appearance of girl’s or woman’s hymen cannot prove whether they have had sexual intercourse, or are sexually active or not."

在一份声明中，该组织称：“‘贞操测试’没有科学或临床依据。”“没有任何检查可以证明一个女孩或成年女性是否有过性行为——处女膜的外观不能证明她们是否有过性行为，或者性行为是否活跃。”

▲T.I. Said He Goes To The Gynecologist With His Daughter Every Year To "Check Her Hymen" (via Buzzfeed News)